Planning a wedding can be nerve wracking - to the degree where you might not even make it! Read on to see how Windmills can help ease your path towards a happy "I do!"
Getting married can be a beautiful experience. Your 'little girl dreams' of a beautiful wedding dress have come true! But... well...
A wedding is meant to be one of the best days of your life. Somehow though, some niggling little doubt creeps in and almost ruins it.
You start to remember all those times you argued (sometimes really nastily) and you wonder if you're making the right decision. You think of all your partner's faults and consider whether you can actually live with this person - for the rest of your life.
Being nervous about this one huge decision you've just made is quite natural. At times, though we can't stop wondering what we are doing. Were we crazy to say 'yes'? Should we just jump out of it now - before it's too late?
Things don't always go to plan. People argue. People disagree. People fight. Families begin to interfere, and they start to put their preferences above yours. Friends become jealous and want things to go their way - the dress colours/shapes/sizes are not right. You feel overweight and frumpy. You can't get the flowers you want. Someone argues about the style or expense of the cake. Certain foods aren't available... the photographer you set your heart on can't do your date. The list is simply endless. And you're naturally worried about it all.
When one partner asks another to marry them, it's a BIG deal. It's a huge momentous moment. Why? Because it's a decision that they've not arrived at lightly. It's after much serious thought that the woman or man of their dreams is so precious that they cannot bear to let them go, so they figure - marriage will be the way to keep them in their life.
But, things can get a little challenging soon after the ring is placed on that finger.
Leading up to the wedding, couples naturally start to get anxious. They worry about how they'll look in their chosen outfit, will there be enough funds to pay for everything, will nervousness take over when the speeches are said? Most of all, will your partner actually turn up?
All of this is going to cause some anxiety pangs to churn away in the belly and place a huge ache in your head and a crushing sensation in your heart.
Wouldn't it be good if you could make every step towards that aisle walk a pleasurable one?
Believe it or not, you can ease-up on those anxious thoughts, feelings and behaviours.
By beginning to understand the roles you have already played in your partnership you can begin making some solid plans for your future married life - so that you and your partner can experience more pleasure than pain! For instance:
We have ways to help you ease-up on emotional upset, worries and anxieties, that can help make your big day (and the rest of your life) the pleasurable one it should be.
You can start to look forward to your special day not as THE ONLY special day of your life - but as ONE OF the best days of your life! And you can remember it with fondness while being able to continue to build upon that path towards more wonderful days ahead.
Windmills of the Mind may be able to help you cope better with your overwhelming plans and clear your mind of any worries, anxieties, or feelings of despair you might express.
Simply book a FREE 15 minute consultation, so we can explore how we can help heal any anxieties you may be experiencing.
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